June 18, 2025
What Can’t Be Fixed Can Be Healed

There are wounds that no scalpel can reach.

 Cracks that no glue can mend.

 Stories that don’t end with resolutions, but with quiet acceptance.

We live in a world obsessed with fixing — broken phones, fractured relationships, fading dreams. The moment something shows signs of wear, we rush to repair or replace. But what if not everything broken needs fixing? What if some things are meant to stay cracked — not as signs of failure, but as places where light enters?

Healing isn’t the same as fixing.

 Fixing looks backward — trying to restore what once was.

 Healing, however, looks forward. It asks: What now? How do we live with this? How do we grow from here?

Think of grief. There’s no "fix" for losing someone. No button to rewind, no glue to restore a missing presence. But there is healing — in remembrance, in ritual, in continuing to speak their name.

 Think of heartbreak. A shattered heart doesn’t come back the same. It comes back wiser, deeper, softer.

 Think of childhood wounds — invisible bruises from words we were too young to understand. We can’t erase them. But we can meet them as adults, wrap them in gentleness, and say: You were never too much. You were just hurt.

Healing is slow. It’s silent most of the time.

 It happens when you choose rest instead of rushing.

 When you tell your truth — even with a shaking voice.

 When you forgive someone, or maybe just yourself.

To heal is not to forget the pain, but to stop letting it define you.

Some things won’t be fixed — not the way you imagined.

 But that doesn’t mean they’re lost forever.

 It means they’re becoming something else.

Scar tissue is tougher than skin.

 A healed heart beats differently — but it still beats.

 And a person who has known deep pain,

 and stayed open,

 is more whole than someone who has never been broken.

So if you're holding pieces that don’t fit anymore…

 Don’t rush to fix them.

 Sit with them.

 Listen to them.

 And trust that healing — quiet, sacred, and slow — is happening beneath the surface.

Because what can’t be fixed… can still be healed.